We are quick to call someone a dead beat. But slow to take
action to stand for what’s right. With so much negative influence from
television to advice from our friends that are not in better situations then
ourselves. What are we really teaching our children? Reality is not what we see
on TV and spiteful acts, and ulterior motive to get our way only teaches our
kids to do the same. We’re quick to judge but slow to take a look at close details
that make the truth. We will give a bum a dollar before we help a father be
apart of his child life. We will feed other countries children and charge a
father here his sanity and freedom just to get a couple days out the week to be
apart of his child life.
There is no easy way to address these turmoil situations.
But over looking it and allowing one parent to abuse the system creates a
greater danger. Many kids have grown up
without one of their parents grows up with an emptiness left in their heart
& time they will never get back. An
absent parent due to circumstance like death when a child is young is totally
different than a child growing up to find out one parent kept them away from
the other parent or a parent using the system to. What happens when kid finds out the truth? More so in most cases there is sound evidence
that judges tend to let slide. Contempt of court is a joke. Court dates are so
spread out giving one parent an upper hand of using what they call 9/10’s of
the law is possession of the child. Child will never understand or know the truth
until they are 30-40 years old having to go through the same history they where
taught. Both parents have to live and
survive in this already hard economy.
Why should one parent be charged to see their child & charged based
on how much you pay is how much time you get with your child. Some states it’s the
more you pay the more you see your child. This has created a booming business
for country around the States. If it’s the best interest of the child then
everybody working in the child support building should be a volunteer. Court appointed child monitors should be
free. Have you seen child support
building in your area? Most of them are huge buildings with a lot of people
working there. I can guarantee you they are not working for free & have
nasty attitudes far from customer service. So creating a fair play system to really allow
parents to be forced to share parenting would be all too simple and would put a
lot of people out of work. You go down
to DA’s office you several men with tickets on there head worth more than a
brand new car some worth more than a house.
Are all these parents’ dead beats?
Or is having a child like a financing a new car where they expect you
default so they can come repo you. How
is a parent making $300 a week to get sanctioned half of his check suppose to
live anywhere in this country?
If a woman can have a baby and throw away her rights by
given the child to hospital to void having babies dumped in dumpsters not be
charged with child support. I think the
fair option should be giving to a man as well.
We are all grown & have responsibilities to attend to. The burden shouldn’t be pawned off on another
parent giving any situation. I hear don’t worry things will work out for the
better in the end just be patient. Time lost is something we can never get
back.
